Guys online just want sex!
I stayed up really late tonight to talk to somebody new online. I seem to be slowing down a bit and I need to reload to fill my calendar. Otherwise, I won’t have anything juicy to write about.
So there were 2 people to chat with. This great guy named Cory and some dork that messaged me from a chat room. A guy named Jeremy; dorky but cute.
All right so here is my problem… I have yet to understand the purpose of a chat room beyond somebody trying to get laid. So far, it has been my experience that any guy that tells you otherwise is lying! No matter how much I insist that I don’t want a “hook up” when these guys contact me, the conversation always moves towards sex; usually within the first 5 min.
Some of the common things guys say that imply they are more interested in sex than getting to know me:
Nice rack, what size are they?
If we met, what would you want to do?
What are your favorite positions?
Any of those 3 questions asked the first day that I chat online with a guy make any
Interests that I could have had instantly disappear!
It’s such a crazy double standard. Guys only want to “date” respectful women who aren’t easy but they are still always looking to “hook up”. How the hell am I supposed to find a freakin boyfriend this way? If I put out, they don’t respect me, if I don’t put out, they don’t want me. I’m not supposed to date through MIPL, guys online are just looking to get laid, guys at work are technically off limits (although there really isn’t anybody dateable there anyway) a bar scene isn’t much better… speed dating came up a few nights ago at a party. When I heard about speed dating I was married but it always sounded fun to me. Maybe I will give it a whirl.
Boy #1 - Pretty cute, a bit younger and moving to Portland for work. I am definitely interested in him. He would be fun to live with, would fit well into my social group but won’t be here till April (So I never actually got around to meeting this guy… all of our conversations seemed to always turn toward those same 3 questions I just listed. I got sick of always trying to redirect the conversation away from sex. I won’t meet him; it’s obvious what he is after.)
Boy #2 - Willing to pull out his Penis for me on camera. You lose a lot of respect for a guy who is willing to do that the night you meet him online. Or anytime really…
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Men in chat rooms just want sex! What a shock!
I am sure its frustrating. Perhaps you need another avenue to meet new people? Like the grocery store? The local Sports Bar? Church?
You’re right. Go back to the chat rooms. They seem safer.
yea, it’s true. Guys online usually just want sex if they are so eager to meet you and yall have been quite sexual most of the time online. they may make you think it is more than sex and that they want to get to know the real you, that’s B.S. Men will say and do anything to get laid. So, never meet a guy online if you are looking for a relationship because they are not.
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